Fuck.
I actually stop having sex tomorrow - nothing, actually nothing.
Fuck.
You buggers better donate!
31/01/2010
29/01/2010
27/01/2010
Teen Hearts
You know I was saying about how the 'scene' is just gunna end up collapsing in on itself? Well no matter how hard the kids kick their legs, all of the neon wearing, alternative as grass, wannabe shit heads aren't gunna keep this latest addition to the gargage barge from sinking the whole damn thing.
Go google it, there's a million posts - It's not the racism, or the look, just listen to that song, and tell me it's alternative. If this is supposed to be alt, then I guess Alphabeat will on the rock show next week. Let's stop this alt/pop mash, by killing them all
Go google it, there's a million posts - It's not the racism, or the look, just listen to that song, and tell me it's alternative. If this is supposed to be alt, then I guess Alphabeat will on the rock show next week. Let's stop this alt/pop mash, by killing them all
22/01/2010
Valentines day!
I'm missing it!
I can't kiss anyone, or do anything interesting on that day at all! So, to make me feel just a little better please donate! Remember every little does help, and this is going to be epically hard for me so PLEASE give as much as you can!
Luckily I'll be able to have sex on March 14th which is also known as steak and blowjob day or manentines day :D
PLEASE DONATE!
I can't kiss anyone, or do anything interesting on that day at all! So, to make me feel just a little better please donate! Remember every little does help, and this is going to be epically hard for me so PLEASE give as much as you can!
Luckily I'll be able to have sex on March 14th which is also known as steak and blowjob day or manentines day :D
PLEASE DONATE!
20/01/2010
The Reason Girls Aren't Happy... Maybe
Ok, so lots of things happen, and I'm often wrong - I don't think a single girl will agree with me on this, but as far as I can tell this is what is happening.
It's why dating doesn't exist anymore.
It might be easiest to explain this as a story...
Boy and Girl are at a club, they bump into each other at the bar and get talking, it all goes quite nicely, maybe they kiss maybe they don't - but they do exchange numbers. For the next couple of days they text, then it moves to facebook and onto msn. They feel like they're getting to know each other pretty well, the guy is charming and lovely and pretty ok looking. so, they go out on a date.
Pause
Right now the guy is thinking, score a date - we can see where this leads. Afterall that's what a date is, a chance to really get to know the other person, see if they're the kind of person you'd like to see more of.
But, the girl is thinking, (unless they're a total weirdo) that this is the start of the relationship, they can stop flirting with other boys, they can relax, it's boyfriend time.
Chances are they'll have sex pretty soon after this, as that's what couples do, but if that was what the guy was after then that girl is gunna be heartbroken, or even if the guy is looking for a relationship, what if he doesn't see her as the girl for him? It looks like he was just after sex anyway, and she gets heartbroken.
This is why I stopped doing dates - dates allude to something more - but that's not the point.
My point is that boys and girls are not at the same stages in a relationship at the same time until much later. And this is the fault of the girl. Yes, it is, because by delaying a date until you 'get to know them' on msn you're getting an emotional attachement. There isn't supposed to be a pre-date but now there is - and it's fucking people about. Boys getting trapped in relationships and girls getting hurt simply because of all the additional comunication. It's not one persons fault really - boys and girls are just on different pages (until the girl tells the boy off and skips him forward a few!)
To back-up my argument I asked the girls around me whether they'd meet up someone they'd met once in a bar, even after a lot of texts and a couple calls they all said no.
THAT IS WHEN A DATE IS SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN!
These girls said they'd like to meet up with them when with their friends, and get to know them better in that kind of safer environment - fair enough, but eventually, it's going to go to facebook etc. The girls expectations grows as they chat online, while the guys doesn't at all - because guys can't get attached to words on a screen. Then it comes to date time and the girls expectations are way higher - again leading to dissapointment.
I've seen this happen a lot of times, with either the guy trapped (sometimes happily) or the girl upset. And it's happening to me at the moment, building rapport with someone I don't want a relationship with, if I ever manage to convince her to see me she may already be beyond the attachment point, and will end up hurt :(
There's only a few ways to deal with this.
1) Girls, meet these guys a lot earlier, realise they're not quite as lovely as they seem online and give them a chance to obsess about you. Boys need face time - we have porn, so chatting about your cat is not gunna make us fall for you!
2) Boys, if you want a relationship with the girl - great, you've got it. If not - be brutally honest as soon as you possibly can be. The girl will hate the loss of romance and propect of something more, but she will respect your honesty. I've blown my chances a few times, but it's better to go home alone than hurt a girl.
GOT IT?
Oh, and don't give anyone who fucks you around, I'm sure you've all found that out the hard way, and probably will again.
It's why dating doesn't exist anymore.
It might be easiest to explain this as a story...
Boy and Girl are at a club, they bump into each other at the bar and get talking, it all goes quite nicely, maybe they kiss maybe they don't - but they do exchange numbers. For the next couple of days they text, then it moves to facebook and onto msn. They feel like they're getting to know each other pretty well, the guy is charming and lovely and pretty ok looking. so, they go out on a date.
Pause
Right now the guy is thinking, score a date - we can see where this leads. Afterall that's what a date is, a chance to really get to know the other person, see if they're the kind of person you'd like to see more of.
But, the girl is thinking, (unless they're a total weirdo) that this is the start of the relationship, they can stop flirting with other boys, they can relax, it's boyfriend time.
Chances are they'll have sex pretty soon after this, as that's what couples do, but if that was what the guy was after then that girl is gunna be heartbroken, or even if the guy is looking for a relationship, what if he doesn't see her as the girl for him? It looks like he was just after sex anyway, and she gets heartbroken.
This is why I stopped doing dates - dates allude to something more - but that's not the point.
My point is that boys and girls are not at the same stages in a relationship at the same time until much later. And this is the fault of the girl. Yes, it is, because by delaying a date until you 'get to know them' on msn you're getting an emotional attachement. There isn't supposed to be a pre-date but now there is - and it's fucking people about. Boys getting trapped in relationships and girls getting hurt simply because of all the additional comunication. It's not one persons fault really - boys and girls are just on different pages (until the girl tells the boy off and skips him forward a few!)
To back-up my argument I asked the girls around me whether they'd meet up someone they'd met once in a bar, even after a lot of texts and a couple calls they all said no.
THAT IS WHEN A DATE IS SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN!
These girls said they'd like to meet up with them when with their friends, and get to know them better in that kind of safer environment - fair enough, but eventually, it's going to go to facebook etc. The girls expectations grows as they chat online, while the guys doesn't at all - because guys can't get attached to words on a screen. Then it comes to date time and the girls expectations are way higher - again leading to dissapointment.
I've seen this happen a lot of times, with either the guy trapped (sometimes happily) or the girl upset. And it's happening to me at the moment, building rapport with someone I don't want a relationship with, if I ever manage to convince her to see me she may already be beyond the attachment point, and will end up hurt :(
There's only a few ways to deal with this.
1) Girls, meet these guys a lot earlier, realise they're not quite as lovely as they seem online and give them a chance to obsess about you. Boys need face time - we have porn, so chatting about your cat is not gunna make us fall for you!
2) Boys, if you want a relationship with the girl - great, you've got it. If not - be brutally honest as soon as you possibly can be. The girl will hate the loss of romance and propect of something more, but she will respect your honesty. I've blown my chances a few times, but it's better to go home alone than hurt a girl.
GOT IT?
Oh, and don't give anyone who fucks you around, I'm sure you've all found that out the hard way, and probably will again.
18/01/2010
I'm glad I'm not american
But I wish I lived there... the spoilt bastards.
http://snarkiest.tumblr.com/
Anyway, go read this blog for a giggle, it's written by some miserable girl who like to bitch about the 'scene' and how bitchy it is. It's this kind of thing that makes the scene so dreadful, but if you can get yourself a nice tumblr fanbase then you know you're doing things right eg: pop songs for 'alternative' girls.
Funny how it's all just the same again now, even metalcore is going pop, just got to wait for next BMTH album to feature Travis McCoy and Gabe Saporta :\
Lets hope bands like Architects don't follow the trend and stick to keeping it heavy.
Don't get me wrong, I like my pop-punk and mainstream rock, but when the 'scene' is listening to Metro Station you've got to worry who you're identifying with.
Like all alternative movements, they've got bigger, and more rediculous until they've collasped in on themselves leaving only a few of the hardcore left as a thwoback to times forgotten - just like that old barber with his greased back hair and leather jacket is a throw back to the teddy boys of the 50s, in 50 years will we still have proud emo boys, sporting their fringes, plugs and tattoos? Or will they all be hiding their idiotic youth beneath the latest BHS clothing?
I just want to know what's coming next, and when it'll be here. This latest trend is set to burst anyday now.
http://snarkiest.tumblr.com/
Anyway, go read this blog for a giggle, it's written by some miserable girl who like to bitch about the 'scene' and how bitchy it is. It's this kind of thing that makes the scene so dreadful, but if you can get yourself a nice tumblr fanbase then you know you're doing things right eg: pop songs for 'alternative' girls.
Funny how it's all just the same again now, even metalcore is going pop, just got to wait for next BMTH album to feature Travis McCoy and Gabe Saporta :\
Lets hope bands like Architects don't follow the trend and stick to keeping it heavy.
Don't get me wrong, I like my pop-punk and mainstream rock, but when the 'scene' is listening to Metro Station you've got to worry who you're identifying with.
Like all alternative movements, they've got bigger, and more rediculous until they've collasped in on themselves leaving only a few of the hardcore left as a thwoback to times forgotten - just like that old barber with his greased back hair and leather jacket is a throw back to the teddy boys of the 50s, in 50 years will we still have proud emo boys, sporting their fringes, plugs and tattoos? Or will they all be hiding their idiotic youth beneath the latest BHS clothing?
I just want to know what's coming next, and when it'll be here. This latest trend is set to burst anyday now.
14/01/2010
WTF
Tonight I got stood up for the third time in a row.
When did I become such a fool to allow this to happen?
Someone get me out of this - this is NOT who I am.
When did I become such a fool to allow this to happen?
Someone get me out of this - this is NOT who I am.
13/01/2010
2010
Teh-Rawr says:
*meeting a girl
Rob says:
*ghey
Teh-Rawr says:
*not really
*boy/girl is pretty hetro
Rob says:
*not any more
*it's 2010
Teh-Rawr says:
*hetrophobe :P
*meeting a girl
Rob says:
*ghey
Teh-Rawr says:
*not really
*boy/girl is pretty hetro
Rob says:
*not any more
*it's 2010
Teh-Rawr says:
*hetrophobe :P
10/01/2010
SEX!
hello people
I'm giving up sex for 40 days and 40 nights! It's gunna be hard, but I'm doing it for charity so I'm pretty confident! This is where I'll be keeping a log of how I'm doing, as far as how much money I raise, and how I'm doing personally. I'm sure a few of you might be interested on how much I'm suffering so I'll be posting it here (and facebook will be re-posting it to my notes)
I have a justgiving page now - please go and donate. It looks rather depressing atm! www.justgiving.com/40days
I am NOT looking forward to feb 1st!
I'm giving up sex for 40 days and 40 nights! It's gunna be hard, but I'm doing it for charity so I'm pretty confident! This is where I'll be keeping a log of how I'm doing, as far as how much money I raise, and how I'm doing personally. I'm sure a few of you might be interested on how much I'm suffering so I'll be posting it here (and facebook will be re-posting it to my notes)
I have a justgiving page now - please go and donate. It looks rather depressing atm! www.justgiving.com/40days
I am NOT looking forward to feb 1st!
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